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你好！马老师心理工作室。
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nǐhǎo! Mǎ lǎoshī xīnlǐ gōngzuòshì.
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Hello! Doctor Ma's mental health clinic.
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B:
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马老师，我不想活了。
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Mǎ lǎoshī, wǒ bù xiǎng huó le.
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Doctor Ma, I don't want to live.
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A:
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姑娘，我知道你遇到了很大的困难。我会尽全力帮助你的。你千万别说这样的话。好吗？
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gūniang, wǒ zhīdào nǐ yùdào le hěn dà de kùnnan. wǒ huì jìn quánlì bāngzhù nǐ de. nǐ qiānwàn bié shuō zhèyàng de huà. hǎo ma?
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Miss, I know you've endured a great hardship. I'll do everything in my power to help you, but you absolutely must not say those kinds of things, OK?
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B:
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好。马老师，
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hǎo. Mǎ lǎoshī,
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OK. Doctor Ma...
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A:
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姑娘，你叫什么名字？
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gūniang, nǐ jiào shénme míngzi?
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What is your name, miss?
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B:
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我叫小倩。
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wǒ jiào Xiǎoqiàn.
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I'm Xiao Qian.
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A:
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小倩，能告诉我，你遇到了什么事吗？
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Xiǎoqiàn, néng gàosu wǒ, nǐ yùdào le shénme shì ma?
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Xiao Qian, could you tell me what happened?
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B:
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我老公是个赌鬼，一输钱，就回家打我，拿我撒气。
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wǒ lǎogōng shì ge dǔguǐ, yī shū qián, jiù huíjiā dǎ wǒ, ná wǒ sāqì.
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My husband is a big gambler. Whenever he loses money, he comes home and vents his anger by hitting me.
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小倩，我非常理解你的遭遇。很多打这个热线的女性都在经受家庭暴力。你有没有试着离开他？
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Xiǎoqiàn, wǒ fēicháng lǐjiě nǐ de zāoyù. hěn duō dǎ zhè ge rèxiàn de nǚxìng dōu zài jīngshòu jiātíng bàolì. nǐ yǒumeiyǒu shì zhe líkāi tā?
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Xiao Qian, I very much understand what you're going through. Many women who call this hotline are dealing with domestic abuse. Have you tried to leave him?
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B:
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有。可是每次他打完，都会跪在地上认错。而且求我看在孩子的份上别离开他。
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yǒu. kěshì měicì tā dǎwán, dōu huì guì zài dìshang rèncuò. érqiě qiú wǒ kànzài háizi de fèn shàng bié líkāi tā.
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Yes. But after he's finished beating me, he always kneels down to apologize. Furthermore, he begs me not to leave for our child's sake.
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小倩，这是家暴实施者的借口。他绝对不会改的。你如果为了孩子忍受，这是大错特错！
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Xiǎoqiàn, zhè shì jiābào shíshīzhě de jièkǒu. tā juéduì bùhuì gǎi de. nǐ rúguǒ wèile háizi rěnshòu, zhè shì dàcuòtècuò!
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Xiao Qian, this is the domestic abuser's excuse. He definitely won't change. Trying to endure it for the sake of your child is a massive mistake!
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B:
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我知道，我也想走。可是他说不管我走到哪儿，他都能找到我。而且要杀了我。
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wǒ zhīdào, wǒ yě xiǎng zǒu. kěshì tā shuō bùguǎn wǒ zǒudào nǎr, tā dōu néng zhǎodào wǒ. érqiě yào shā le wǒ.
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I know. I want to leave, but he says that no matter where I go he'll find me and kill me.
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小倩，马老师看过很多这样的案例。他越是威胁你，你越是要鼓起勇气。
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Xiǎoqiàn, Mǎ lǎoshī kàn guo hěn duō zhèyàng de ànlì. tā yuèshì wēixié nǐ, nǐ yuèshì yào gǔqǐ yǒngqì.
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Xiao Qian, I've seen this kind of case many times. The more he threatens you, the more courage you have to muster.
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B:
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可我怎么办？就算我带着孩子离开这个城市，那我的父母呢？他会杀了他们的！
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kě wǒ zěnme bàn? jiùsuàn wǒ dài zhe háizi líkāi zhè ge chéngshì, nà wǒ de fùmǔ ne? tā huì shā le tāmen de!
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But what should I do? Even if I take my child and leave this city, what will my parents do? He'll kill them!
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A:
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小倩，你听我说，公安机关、法院都会帮助你的。
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Xiǎoqiàn, nǐ tīng wǒ shuō, gōngānjīguān、 fǎyuàn dōu huì bāngzhù nǐ de.
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Xiao Qian, listen to me. The police and courts will help you.
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B:
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他们没法帮我。我太绝望了！最简单的办法，就是我去死。我死了，他就满意了。
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tāmen méifǎ bāng wǒ. wǒ tài juéwàng le! zuì jiǎndān de bànfǎ, jiùshì wǒ qù sǐ. wǒ sǐ le, tā jiù mǎnyì le.
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They have no way of helping me. It's hopeless! The easiest way would be for me to just die. If I died, he would be satisfied.
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小倩，千万不能这样想。你死了，你的孩子、你的父母怎么办？你先冷静下来，听我说......
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Xiǎoqiàn, qiānwàn bùnéng zhèyàng xiǎng. nǐ sǐ le, nǐ de háizi、 nǐ de fùmǔ zěnme bàn? nǐ xiān lěngjìng xiàlai, tīng wǒ shuō......
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Xiao Qian, you absolutely must not think like that. If you die, what will your child and parents do? Calm down and listen to me...
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