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A:
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莺莺，你脸色不大好啊，不舒服吗？
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Yīngyīng, nǐ liǎnsè bùdà hǎo a, bù shūfu ma?
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Ying Ying, you don’t look so good. Are you not feeling well?
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B:
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没有。
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méiyǒu.
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No.
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A:
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是不是两口子闹矛盾了？
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shìbushì liǎngkǒuzi nàomáodùn le?
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Is it that there’s some conflict at home?
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B:
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嗯。昨晚又跟浩宇吵架了，没睡好。
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ng4. zuówǎn yòu gēn Hàoyǔ chǎojià le, méi shuì hǎo.
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Yeah. I had another fight with Haoyu last night and didn’t sleep well.
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A:
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你跟浩宇以前不是好好的吗？怎么最近老听你说吵架？
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nǐ gēn Hàoyǔ yǐqián bùshì hǎohāo de ma? zěnme zuìjìn lǎo tīng nǐ shuō chǎojià?
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Weren’t you and Haoyu doing great before? How is it that I always hear about the two of you fighting these days?
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B:
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哎，我也不知道。老是因为一些鸡毛蒜皮的小事吵。
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āi, wǒ yě bù zhīdào. lǎoshi yīnwèi yīxiē jīmáosuànpí de xiǎoshì chǎo.
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I don’t know either. It’s always about stupid little things.
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A:
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是不是因为有了孩子以后事情突然多起来了？
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shìbushì yīnwèi yǒu le háizi yǐhòu shìqing tūrán duō qǐlái le?
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Maybe it’s because after having kids there’s suddenly so much more to worry about?
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B:
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我也说不清楚。反正看着他在眼前晃来晃去就觉得不顺眼。他也是，以前对我的那些耐心好像一夜之间全没了。
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wǒ yě shuōbuqīngchǔ. fǎnzhèng kànzhe tā zài yǎnqián huàngláihuàngqù jiù juéde bù shùnyǎn. tā yě shì, yǐqián duì wǒ de nàxiē nàixīn hǎoxiàng yīyèzhījiān quán méi le.
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I can’t really say. I have to say, seeing him around all the time just bugs me. He’s the same way; the patience he used to have for me seems to have totally disappeared overnight.
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A:
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夫妻之间哪有不吵架的。床头吵架床尾和嘛，夫妻没有隔夜仇。
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fūqī zhījiān nǎyǒu bù chǎojià de. chuángtóu chǎojià chuángwěi hé ma, fūqī méiyǒu géyè chóu.
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What couple doesn't fight? You fight getting into bed and make up before you fall asleep. By the morning you've already forgotten why you were angry.
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B:
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现在真的有些改变了。我们对对方都没耐心了。我想是不是真的到了“七年之痒”了。
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xiànzài zhēnde yǒuxiē gǎibiàn le. wǒmen duì duìfāng dōu méi nàixīn le. wǒ xiǎng shìbushì zhēnde dào le" qīniánzhīyǎng” le.
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Things really have changed now. We have no patience for one another. I think it might be the “seven year itch”.
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A:
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什么痒不痒的，你千万别给自己这种暗示。结婚久了肯定要经历一个平淡期，两口子好好沟通沟通，过去就好了。
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shénme yǎng bù yǎng de, nǐ qiānwàn bié gěi zìjǐ zhèzhǒng ànshì. jiéhūn jiǔ le kěndìng yào jīnglì yī gè píngdànqī, liǎngkǒuzi hǎohāo gōutōnggōutōng, guòqù jiù hǎole.
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Enough of this "itch" nonsense! You just can't let that thought enter your mind. After a while, you will definitely experience a lull in your marriage. If the couple communicates well, they will get past it with no problems.
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B:
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哎，王姐，你是不知道，有时候吵得凶了，我都想干脆离婚算了。
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āi, Wángjiě, nǐ shì bù zhīdào, yǒushíhou chǎo de xiōng le, wǒ dōu xiǎng gāncuì líhūn suànle.
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Oh, Miss Wang, you don’t understand. Sometimes we have such terrible arguments I just want to get a divorce and be done with it.
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A:
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离婚就能解决问题了？离婚了孩子怎么办？单亲家庭的孩子很容易出现心理问题的。
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líhūn jiù néng jiějué wèntí le? líhūn le háizi zěnme bàn? dānqīn jiātíng de háizi hěn róngyì chūxiàn xīnlǐ wèntí de.
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What problems will getting a divorce solve? What will happen to your child if you get a divorce? The children of single-parent families are very susceptible to psychological problems.
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B:
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我们就这样老吵，对孩子也不好。
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wǒmen jiù zhèyàng lǎo chǎo, duì háizi yě bù hǎo.
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The way we quarrel all the time isn’t good for our child either.
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A:
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浩宇他应该没有外心吧？
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Hàoyǔ tā yīnggāi méiyǒu wàixīn ba?
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Haoyu isn’t taking interest in other women, is he?
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B:
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应该没有，还是一下班就回家，家务啊，孩子啊，也能搭把手的。
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yīnggāi méiyǒu, háishì yī xiàbān jiù huíjiā, jiāwù a, háizi a, yě néng dābǎshǒu de.
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I don’t think so. When he gets off work he still comes straight home. He also pitches in doing housework and taking care of the child.
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A:
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那就没事。你可千万别提离婚，成个家多不容易啊。
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nà jiù méishì. nǐ kě qiānwàn bié tí líhūn, chéng gè jiā duō bù róngyì a.
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Then there’s no problem. You should never bring up the idea of getting a divorce. Maintaining a family is far from easy.
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B:
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好，王姐我听你的。
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hǎo, Wángjiě wǒ tīng nǐ de.
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OK Miss Wang. I’ll listen to your advice.
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A:
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嗯。那早点回家吧。
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ng4. nà zǎodiǎnr huíjiā ba.
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Good. You should get home before it gets late.
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